Ever since the boys were four and six, Chris and I have been trying to figure out how best to get them to help with household chores. We started with an Excel spreadsheet of all the chores we needed done, and a small amount of money we were willing to pay-50 cents to empty all the wastebaskets, a dollar to scoop the kitty litter, that sort of thing. It worked okay for a while, but the problem was is that after a few weeks, only the “popular” (i.e. easy) chores were getting done, because even for a dollar, NO ONE wanted to scoop the kitty litter. So the spreadsheet got abandoned, and I went back to doing most of the housework with occasional breaks to nag other family members into doing them.
Now, it’s four years later, and I had almost given up on figuring out how to get all of the chores done. Which is why I was excited to get a chance to review a new website called Chore Buster. It’s a free web site that automatically generates a chore schedule for one or more people! You spend some time filling in information on each member of your family, and what your chores are. You can either create your own list of chores, or choose from a pre-selected list that I think is based on what other users of the site have put in. Next, you fill in how often each chore needs doing, the difficulty of the chore, what day you want it to start, and how often it should repeat.
That took me about a half an hour to do initially, and then I spent time tweaking the chart. After my first attempt, I realized I had given most of the chores to Chris and I, and almost none to the boys, and that’s kind of the opposite of what I wanted to do
Also, I had the chores clumped together so that there were days with way too many and days with not enough. So I went back and forth resetting the frequencies of the chores and who should be doing them.
The best part of the site is that it emails you with the chore lists every day or every week, so you always know who needs to be doing what. And, you can set your chore chart to public so it appears on the community list for others to see. I was fascinated by the chart created by a mother with EIGHT children-I imagine this site is a lifesaver for her! There’s also a message board where you can chat about the site and how it’s working for you.
I’m not sure how my family is going to react to this new chore chart; but I’ve got it set to start tomorrow, and even if it takes a few weeks, I’m not giving up on it. I’ve already been thinking of other uses for the chart-for example, I could put in “Pay Bills” on my husband’s paydays, I could set Sundays to be my Meal Planning Day, I could even put in a daily “chore” for exercise! This is a great organizational tool and I would love to have my readers check it out. There’s absolutely no obligation; in fact, you can log in with a demo username and password and try the site out without having to give any personal details at all. Don’t want to log in at all? You can still look at a demo of how the site works. Let’s get ourselves and our families organized and get everyone pitching in on the chores! So that we have MORE TIME TO BLOG!!
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It looks like a good idea. I’m tired of telling them to do this, do that. My husband ends up doing the things himself even if sometimes I would prefer that the kids would do it, even taking longer but my husband is “clean maniac” and he can’t stand to see something out of place. I have to try those schedules.
This looks like a great idea—I’ll have to check it out. My son is starting kindergarten this fall and he’s at the perfect age to start pitching in with chores. Thanks for the great idea!
Even though I know that Nathan will need help doing a lot of his chores, at least he’ll get the idea that he needs to pitch in, and hopefully build his confidence as he is able to do the chores on his own. I hope it works for you, too!
Alison, I think that we Mothers tend to think that we have to do everything, and also that we tend to want it done perfectly or not at all. The trick is to let them do the chore even if they don’t do it perfectly and you have to sneak in and finish it when they aren’t looking! For example, if you have your son empty all the wastebaskets into a big trash bag, and some of them still have little bits of things at the bottom when he’s done, at least he tried and he’ll get better at it as he gets older. I have the HARDEST time remembering that my kids are just KIDS sometimes
You’re not kidding! I currently do everything myself because nobody else can do it just like I want it, including my husband! So I am forever doing dishes, unloading the dishwasher, doing all the laundry, vacuuming, etc. My husband offers but I tell him no because I know I will have to do it my way anyway. Sick, huh? I like your idea though, about sneaking in and fixing it….I’ll have to try that around here.
Alison, it really is hard not to sigh heavily and stamp my foot and say “FINE. I’ll just do EVERYTHING around here”. I have had to really learn to let go and let them do the chore, even if it isn’t the way I would like it. I’m a *little* bit of a control freak that way
That mom of 8, wasn’t me, but I’m interested to see what she came up with.
Cass, I thought of you when I saw her listing! I would be very interested to know how you manage things like laundry, meal planning, grocery shopping, cooking-all of it! You must be very organized.
Pretty neat idea.
My daughter is just about to turn 5, and we’ve kept a magnetic chore chart for her since shortly after her 4th birthday. It’s so much fun seeing how excited she gets about her magnets each day. We give her basic chores such as remembering to put her dishes in the sink, straightening her own bed and helping Mommy or Daddy. Works pretty well.
Stephanie-where did you find the chart? That sounds like it would go great with this Chore Buster chart I just created, rather than just taping a computer printout to the fridge!
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