Kaitlyn and I went to the Mall this morning, so I could return a pair of shoes to Penney’s. We stopped at Barnes and Noble so she could play with the trains and those books that have the buttons you can press that play obnoxiously loud music-I refuse to buy them, so I let her play with them in the store instead
After we left Penney’s, we were walking back down the Mall to the exit and we passed Claire’s. They had a bin right outside the entrance that was full of fifty percent off little kids’ backpacks. Kaitlyn pointed to a Hello Kitty one, I don’t even know how she knows who that is, but it caught her eye. She then walked away, and this girl walked up, she was maybe 15 or 16, and she was with another lady. The girl picked up the Hello Kitty backpack and said to the other lady, “would this make a good present for (didn’t catch the name)?” The other lady said, “I don’t know, how old is (name I still didn’t catch)? Isn’t she two or three?”
So then I pipe up, totally butting in on their conversation, and say to the lady, “if the present is for a two or three year old, that backpack would be cute. You could put in some crayons, some lip gloss, a little hairbrush, she would love it”.
Whoa NELLIE! Who am I to be giving out parent advice uninvited, to total strangers? What kind of FREAK am I?
Fortunately, neither the lady nor the teen girl looked at me like I was insane, instead saying “oh, thanks!” before going to buy the backpack. But geez, I’ve become that scary lady in stores who just starts talking to you like you are friends or something! See what happens when you start getting asked to give your opinions on products? You start giving your opinion to EVERYONE! lol
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Ha! Laughing over here as I too have turned into “that parent”. That’s right, Me, the painfully shy girl giving unsolicited advice! You know what they say - Parenthood changes you.
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LOL You were just being helpful.
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Wow, I don’t feel so alone in my insanity anymore! Thanks for joining me!
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haha…
i am that parent too.
you gave some great tips.
i just might use that.
we’re invited to a birthday next weekend.
i just took notes
That’s hilarious! I have been so close to doing that before - I stop myself just in time, but I know someday I won’t be able to quell the urge and I’ll be the one getting funky looks! LOL
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Oh my gosh. I don’t have kids and I have been doing this for years now! ROFL =)
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No, you are not insane. If I were the woman you just given an advice I would really appreciate your opinion and your kindness. Sometimes some people don’t know how to appreciate help.
I actually LIKE it when people are friendly towards me. It is so rare these days.
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Tanyetta-ha! Until I had a daughter, I would have never known how much 2.5 year old girls love lotion and lip gloss and hairbrushes! lol
Oh please! I do that all the time!
I have also been known to ask kids in the shops what sort of thing they’d like for a present when I’m trying to buy a gift for someone and I don’t know what to get.
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LOL LOL… count me into that group also.. I guess after being a mom for so long you just start to know stuff that you feel you need to share with those around you
Thankfully I haven’t ran into anyone who commented back “Did I ask you????” LOL
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I don’t think it was so bad. If you had told her to put the stuff back and head to the OB/GYN to get a prescription for birth control for her kids, that might have been a little much (although not necessarily bad advice)
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LOL! What a great story! If I was the other person in that story, watch out — I would have engaged you in a long discussion about kids and parenting and the like! As a stay-at-home Dad who runs his own business from a home office, the one thing I crave the most is interaction with other adults!
This story brings to mind a bit of what happened to me last week at our library. I was there with my almost-three-year-old son while my older son was at his tae kwon do class. The libarian, who we sort of know, approached me and out of the blue asked, “Does he get much socialization?”
Huh? Why are YOU asking me that? Is it because you know we home -school and you think stereotypically that my kid doesn’t get out with others much, especially since right now we’re at the library by ourselves?
And the librarian isn’t even a parent! Yet, she’s wondering about the socialization of my son!
So, in your case it’s great: You were giving appropriate advice - in my opinion - about a backpack… it was “relevant” to the situation. In my case, this almost perfect stranger let loose with a question way out of left field.
Insteresting for sure what others have to say, especially to other parents!
- Dave
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