Another scary money conversation at my house

From New York Times Business online:

“Even before the opening bell, Monday looked ugly. But by the time that bell sounded again on the New York Stock Exchange, seven and a half frantic hours later, $1.2 trillion had vanished from the United States stock market.”

And from Money.CNN.com:

NEW YORK (CNNMoney.com) — First, the good news: Even if warnings of economic catastrophe aren’t enough to win approval of a controversial $700 billion Wall Street bailout, the economy is not at risk of falling into a depression, most experts agree.

During the Great Depression, unemployment shot up to as much as 25% in 1933. That came after the gross domestic product, the broadest measure of economic activity, plunged 13% the previous year.

Millions of people lost their savings when banks closed without any insurance for its customers’ deposits. Few economists are predicting economic pain of that magnitude.

Now the bad news: Even if the plan to buy up bad mortgage debt from troubled banks and Wall Street firm does pass, it probably won’t be enough to stop the economy from getting worse than it is today.

And if the battered credit markets fail to restart, either because the bailout fails to win Congressional approval or it doesn’t work as planned, the nation could be facing its worst economic downturn since the Great Depression.

I admit, I don’t think about the future. I don’t “save for a rainy day”. But as my husband and I sat watching “Heroes” last night, we talked about the economy. I asked him if he thought we were headed for another Depression and he said no, but he said he thought we needed to seriously tighten our financial belts. Because we don’t have any savings, and if he lost his job, we would be screwed.

Starting today, I’m going to be cancelling every expenditure we don’t need. I pay for Weight Watchers Online- don’t need it, there are ways to get Weight Watchers recipes and info for free. If I need a structured plan, there’s always SparkPeople which is miraculously still free to use. I don’t need a monthly membership to Blockbuster Online-I get a lot of new releases free to review, and we rarely use the membership anyway. I already cancelled the “pro” membership I was paying StatCounter, since I can find stats through Woopra and Google Analytics. There’s another $9.00 a month.

I’m not getting any magazines delivered anymore, which for a self-proclaimed magazine junkie like myself is hard to give up, but it all adds up. We aren’t buying any school photos this Fall, what the heck is up with that anyway? Now they want you to buy portrait packages twice a year and pay for a Fall Yearbook? School pictures and yearbooks are for the end of the year. Period. I’m also not buying any cheap wrapping paper or $8.00 boxes of chocolate with 5 pieces inside. I hate school fundraising because the stuff for sale is always such junk.

Ryan’s 12th birthday is Thursday. It’s costing me $30.00 for cider and donuts for him to pass out to his class and teachers that morning, which is a ridiculously large amount of money but that and a trip to play Laser Tag for him and three friends is his gift this year. He wants to buy the new “Fable” game but it’s going to have to wait unless I can get a freelance writing job in the next few days that pays immediately.

Ryan needs jeans and pants. Kaitlyn needs everything because we finally went through all the clothes that my blog friends with older girls sent me. The kids are going to all need snow boots and jackets this year. Which is why there is no money for things like diet plans and magazines. And with as much determination as I can, I have to start putting money in a savings account, at least two months’ worth.

I might be over-reacting, and I hope I am. But having money put aside just in case and learning how to stretch the budget is helpful no matter what’s happening with the economy. I can’t control the economy of the country, but I can control the economy of my family, and that’s better than nothing.

Keep warm this winter with iBuyWoodStoves

Man, was it chilly here this morning. The windshields of our cars were covered in condensation that was just this side of actual frost. Time to start gearing up for home heating season! We have a forced air heating system, but I’ve always wished we could live in a house with a fireplace. I don’t actually know anything about fireplaces, how easy or hard they are to maintain, but I know they feel cozy and it’s comforting to sit in front of one and listen to the crackle of the wood and watch the flames dance.

Plus, people with fireplaces in their homes get to have fireplace mantels, which are perfect for displaying photos and knick knacks and things. iBuyWoodStoves is a site that carries all kinds of fireplace items, including mantels in a variety of wood styles and prices. They also carry fireplace surrounds that turn the fireplace into a piece of decorative furniture. Whether your fireplace is wood burning, electric, gas, or gel fuel, the site has accessories you can use.

Naturally, iBuyWoodStoves carries, you guessed it, a variety of discount wood stoves. You can choose from top wood burning stoves from the most trusted manufacturers. You’ll get a quality product at factory direct discount prices. Check out the site for anything you need for your fireplace or wood stove.

Private Practice and big surprise, even sicker

Well, I don’t know what I caught, but in the last 18 hours, I have been completely miserable for most of it. I woke up at 2:00 am this morning freezing cold. It was not cold in our bedroom, but I was racked with shivers. I ended up getting out of bed and getting a fleece blanket out of the linen closet, wrapping it around myself, then getting under the sheet and blanket again. It took a while but I finally warmed up and was able to sleep.

My friend Kellie S. had come over last night to help Nathan and I get boxes up out of the basement for the garage sale today. Yes, sick as I was, we were determined to participate in the neighborhood garage sale. The sale was supposed to start at 8:00, so I had set my alarm clock for 6:30 so I could get up, shower, make coffee, and starting setting up the tables. Instead, I slept until 8:00. I slid out of bed and stood up, and this wave of blinding pain washed through the inside of my head. The more I moved, the worse it was. It took about an hour, two Tylenol Rapid Release gels, a big cup of coffee, and a lot of moaning and groaning before the pain went away.

The good news is, after taking back the $50 I used to make change at the beginning of the sale, we netted $170 and change! I was so surprised that we did that well. We had some porcelain Harlequin dolls that had belonged to Chris’ Grandma that this guy bought for his MIL for $45.00, I sold a bunch of old DVDs at $1 each, and people were even buying videotapes for a quarter each. After five hours though, even just sitting in a chair in the shade of the garage, I was completely worn out, so Chris packed up the rest of the stuff and we came in so I could rest.

I crawled back into bed and finished watching the DVD box set of Private Practice. I don’t know how I completely missed the show last season, but I really, really like it. Of course it doesn’t hurt that two of the show’s stars are Tim Daly and Taye Diggs which hello, HOTTNESS. But more than that, the story lines are compelling to watch. Kate Walsh, Amy Brenneman, Audra McDonald and Paul Adelstein, along with Daly and Diggs, are all theater and Broadway trained actors who know how to play off each other. Oh, and lets not leave out KaDee Strickland as the hospital doctor that both annoys and helps the Oceanside Wellness practitioners, and Chris Lowell as Dell, the office manager who makes sure everyone has everything they need but is also keeping a secret. Want to see a clip?

Created by Grey’s Anatomy’s Shonda Rimes as a spin-off for Kate Walsh’s Dr. Addison Montgomery, Private Practice is part comedy, part drama, and totally enjoyable. Bonus features include deleted scenes, two extended episodes, outtakes, a behind the scenes look at the ensemble cast, and a feature on Kate Walsh’s acting career and how it brought her to her role on Private Practice. Here’s a clip from the bonus features:

I love this show, can you tell? Get it for yourself or as a gift!

Ugly Betty and yeah, still sick

I feel really weird. Headache, neck ache, and my stomach feels funny. My ears kind of hurt too. We’re still doing the garage sale tomorrow, my husband is determined to clear out our basement and seems to think our neighbors will be interested in buying our old junk. I hope he’s right. My friend Kellie S. is coming over in a little while to help me sort through the stuff in the basement.

Kaitlyn is better, although extra-whiney because she had four days of my full attention and got pretty much anything she wanted, so now that I’m not letting her watch TV all day long she’s whining at me about it. Life’s tough, sweetie.

Oh hey, guess what I watched? The Season Two box set of Ugly Betty. That show is pure genius I tell you. It could be so serious, all the drama and backstabbing and fighting, but instead, it’s perfectly campy and outrageous. America Ferrara, Eric Mabius, Vanessa Williams, Judith Light, Rebecca Romijn- all perfect. I LOVE Becki Newton as Amanda and Michael Urie as Marc St. James- they are the PERFECT comic relief on the show! The second season has big shake ups at both Mode and at Mead Publishing, romantic entanglements for Betty, and a surprise for Daniel. Thisfive disc box set loaded with bonus features would be a great gift for Ugly Betty fans.

Need lighting? iBuyLights has what you need!

One way to dress up the outside of your home is with new outdoor lighting, and iBuyLights has beautiful outdoor lamps that look like old fashioned lanterns. We have a similar one on our porch next to the front door, and I’ve always liked the way it looks. Other types of outdoor lighting include ceiling mounted lights (we have one under the overhang of our roof in front of the garage), lamp posts, landscape lights that hang from a pole, pedestal lights that mount on a pillar or the post of a deck, and lights that have your home address number with a light behind it. So many choices!

iBuyLights carries lighting fixtures for indoors too, including pedestals and poles for standing lamps, lamp shades, and mounts for ceiling lights. If you are looking for a certain brand, you can search the site that way as well. Something as simple as switching out the shades on your lamps for fresh ones can really perk up the look of a room.

Speaking of lamps, iBuyLights has those too! In addition to standing floor lamps, you can find really interesting looking table lamps and desk lamps. A table lamp can be a great way to brighten a dark corner of a room or make a centerpiece on a long dining table. Whatever your lighting needs, inside your house or outdoors, check iBuyLights for the lighting you want from great manufacturers.

At least I’m not throwing up

Last Saturday night we went to the Ringling Bros. Circus at Van Andel Arena in Grand Rapids. We had a great time. Sunday morning, my husband felt sick, with a stuffed up nose and a bad headache, and he was extremely tired. He slept most of the day. Sunday night, Nathan felt sick, throwing up several times. He stayed home from school Monday and spent most of it on the couch in the back room sleeping. When Nathan needs to sleep all day, he is really sick. By Tuesday morning he was fine. Tuesday evening I started to feel a bad headache coming on and I was really tired. I got into bed at 8:00 pm and didn’t get up until yesterday morning.

Yesterday afternoon, Kaitlyn woke up from her nap burning hot. I put her on the couch in the living room with a cup of water and a straw for sipping, and a DVD to watch. She got up, walked a few steps, and threw up. Three times. I cleaned it up, put her back on the couch, more water to sip. She threw up again. Three more times. Clean up, tiny sip of water, back to the couch. Chris came home, helped me give her some Ibuprofen, then went to Subway for sandwiches for dinner. Within about 30 minutes, Kaitlyn claimed she felt better and wanted to eat. I went up to the store and got a yogurt (probiotics for regulating digestion) and a can of Campbell’s Chicken Noodle Soup. She ate a few spoonfuls of yogurt and it stayed down. We both went to bed at 9:00.

This morning she was once again burning hot, whining, acting kind of out of it. I got her to sip some diluted apple juice and gave her some Ibuprofen. When her fever went down, she ate a few bites of cereal. And threw some of it back up. Of course. Clean up, change the nightgown, sip of water. Now she claims to feel great and would like to know if she can have a hot dog for lunch. Um, NO. Because there’s no way I’m cleaning that up if it comes back up. Ugh.

I’m so tired. I have a stuffy nose and my ears are both clogged shut, and I just want to get back in bed. We’re supposed to have a garage sale on Saturday with the rest of our neighborhood, and I’m supposed to be in the basement making a sale pile. But I don’t wanna. I wanna SLEEP. I want someone to bring me juice in a cup with a straw and turn my pillow to the cool side. I want someone to put my favorite movies in the DVD player. I don’t want to be the responsible one today. Waaah.

Alvin and the Chipmunks Go To The Movies: Daytona
Jones and the Pearl of Wisdom

alvin chipmunks dvdHoly kamoly that’s a long title for a DVD! Alvin and The Chipmunks: Daytona Jones and the Pearl of Wisdom is a 1990 release that is now out on DVD. It combines three short spoofs of classic movies. In “Daytona Jones and the Pearl of Wisdom”, Alvin as Daytona Jones sets out to track down the legendary Pearl of Wisdom. Along the way he battles the sinister Roland Bellyache to win the Pearl. “Batmunk” has Simon as the Caped Crimefighter, battling the Jokester played by Alvin! And in “Robomunk”, a super robot cop and his police partner must clean up the city after arch villian Mr. Pinky (Theodore) launches his evil schemes.

From what I could tell from the reviews on Amazon and other sites I looked at, the Alvin and the Chipmunks DVDs have quite a loyal following. Who knew?!? So if you are one of those Alvin fans, pick up these DVD to add to your collection!

Brian Regan- The Epitome of Hyperbole

brian regan dvdMy boys are allowed to watch YouTube under our close supervision, and about two weeks ago they came across a clip of Brian Regan doing his “Stupid in School” routine. They watched it, they had me watch it, then we made Chris watch it, and then we all just laughed and repeated it to each other for the next couple of days. He’s hilarious! His third DVD is The Epitome of Hyperbole, with a running time of 42 minutes. I think we all picked his bit about the other planets kicking Pluto out as our favorite routine from that DVD. It’s not rated, but he does use the four-letter “H” word a few times, so I would say at least PG depending on what you let your kids hear. My boys hear that word…ahem…occasionally around the house, so we allowed it.

The DVD is available on Amazon.com along with his two other DVDs and some CDs, too. He’s known as a “clean family comedian” (well, except for this latest performance I suppose), and he is really funny. He’s got a routine, I’m not sure what it’s called, but it’s about kids trying to figure out the plural ending for words, and they come up with “en” as the ending for everything-”boxen”, “woodsen”. My boys just about pass out laughing every time they watch the YouTube clip and they’ve even got Chris and I repeating it. Any comedian who can appeal to that wide of an audience has got some talent.

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Dinosaur King on DVD

dinosaurkingdvdFrom SEGA and the masterminds behind Pokémon and Yu-Gi-Oh! comes Dinosaur King, the new hit series that combines the ultimate in exciting 2D and 3D dino-animation. Join the D-Team, Max, the son of a world-famous paleontologist, and his friends Rex and Zoe in this prehistoric adventure that begins when they uncover a set of mysterious dinosaur cards and three palm-sized stone tablets that have the power to bring extinct dinosaurs to life! With their new power, the three friends are thrust into a quest to collect the lost cards that have been scattered around the world before they fall into the hands of the evil Alpha Gang. Because whoever controls the cards is master of the dinosaurs.

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Book a dream St. Lucia vacation

We’re in our last few weeks of warm weather here in Michigan, it won’t be long before the mornings are icy cold and then the snow will start falling. Ugh. As much as I love living in Michigan, I’ll never be a big fan of bitter cold, slippery snow, and icy roads. It makes me start dreaming of vacations in warmer places, makes me start doing google searches like Holidays St Lucia, looking at resorts with tropical beaches of warm sand and clear blue water. Sigh. St. Lucia is an island in the Caribbean SE of Puerto Rico and NE of Venezuela, and it looks beautiful. It has volcanoes and whale watching and an International Jazz Festival. AND a Food and Rum Festival.

The website Letsgo2 can help plan a St Lucia Holiday including finding flights, choosing the perfect hotel, and packaging the two together to save the most money possible. Use their Holiday Mapper interactive hotel map to search the island for exactly the hotel that fits your needs, from hotels geared towards families to honeymoon hotels. The hotels on St Lucia offer amenities like spas and family Water Parks, there’s something for everyone. St Lucia Holidays mean luxury and relaxation on a beautiful Caribbean island-sure beats a cold Michigan winter!

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