Biologically, I have four sisters I never met. By adoption, I have a sister who did not support my parent's decision to adopt me (she was only 2.5 at the time but still very vocal and physical about her unhappiness with the situation). When I started blogging, it was because I wanted to find a community of women where I would fit in, where I would feel like I was one of them. I didn't just find a community, I found a sisterhood. I'm no longer close to my sister-by-adoption. Instead, I have blog sisters. Some of them know how much they mean to me, and some don't realize that to me, their friendship is as important to me as a family relationship. We don't share parents. We didn't grow up together. And yet, to me, my online sisters feel as real as if we had the same blood running through our veins. I always imagined that sisters were best friends who also shared a parent or some other kind of family situation, but I've had to create that sister relationship from people I met … [Read more...]