How To Learn What the Heck Your Kids Are Doing Online

It’s no secret that kids are more technologically advanced than their parents – they grew up online and spend a great deal of time chatting and facebooking. Rosemary Blandford recognized that as a mom and an adult, she did not know as much about the Internet as she wanted to in order to keep up with her kids. She created a resource for this, RosieKnows.com. There is an entire section about social networking so now, Moms and Dads can join their kids online and stay involved in their digital lives.

Rosie offers free videos, step-by-steps and tutorials for moms looking to catch up to their kids’ technological level.  Thanks to Erin at SS PR,  I have five tips from RosieKnows to share with Table for Five readers.  I’m online all day long and I still check in with my boys to make sure I know what they are doing on their computers, what sites they are going to, whether they are chatting on message boards and how secure and safe they are.  I hope these tips help you feel more connected with what your kids are doing online!

Rosie’s Five Tips for Catching Up to Your Internet Savvy Kids

Feeling a little “behind” when it comes to the Internet? Is your sixth grade daughter also doubling as your personal tech support? Your kids may be of the Facebook generation but not to worry, you can still catch the train. Get on board now because the train is a fast moving one! Here are five tips to help you get started…

Tip One: Get on Facebook even if your child is too young (less than 13 years old) to be on it. It is a communication site unlike anything you’ve ever seen. Besides reconnecting or “friending” others, it is a way to share pictures, communicate and have fun. Once reserved for college aged students, it is now expanding across generations. If you have a teenager, it is likely that they have a Facebook or some other type of social networking account. After you’ve established yourself:

Learn the lingo. A friend of mine couldn’t understand why his teenage daughter was so upset after she had been “tagged” on Facebook. Did someone catch her he wondered? He didn’t know what being “tagged” meant and it was only days later that he learned an unflattering picture of her had been identified and was seen by many.

Know the privacy settings. While nothing on Facebook is truly private, it is important to understand how the settings work. I keep my privacy settings high meaning only my friends (people I’ve approved) can view my information.

Tip Two: Know how to do a good Internet search. If your child is interested in learning about something or needs to do research for a school project, the Internet is often the first (and sometimes the only) stop. Learning how to do a good search can help get to the right sites quickly. Hint: using quotation marks and symbols are a must.

Tip Three: The movie screen has shrunk – to less than 3 inches on a web enabled device like an iphone or blackberry. YouTube has allowed anyone to be a movie maker. Movies of all kinds are constantly uploaded to YouTube. Easy to use recording devices have made uploading to YouTube fairly simple and straightforward. Take a spin on YouTube and see what your kids may be watching. Then, once you figure it out ask if they have a favorite channel or what they like to watch.

Tip Four: Communication has gone high tech. Sure, the best communication is still done face to face but other communication techniques are widely used. Standard phone calls and even email are being replaced by Internet video calling and text messaging. Many people use a tiny keypad to send text messages but if I’m at my computer, I’ll use that instead since it is free and not as tedious.

Tip Five: Find your music online. The days of buying a CD are winding down and chances are pretty high that your child doesn’t even consider buying a CD when they want to listen to music. Pandora is a hit with young and old – essentially a internet radio station you customize. iTunes is a favorite for many wishing to download music and makes a great gift for someone of the Facebook generation.

If you have more tips to share, please leave them in your comment!

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Comments

  1. Send some to help with the complex gadgets I have.

  2. Alfred says:

    Beyond tutorials, the only way for older people to learn how to better use a computer is to actually enjoy doing it. So many older people have trouble understanding that a computer is more than just a dangerous place or a tool for businesses. Sure those things are there, but it’s also so much more. I wish so many adults wouldn’t simply give up and criticize the the Internet as if it were a bad guy. Don’t start teaching your kids to stay out of trouble until you’ve experienced being online enough to know how they get into trouble at all.

  3. David says:

    Great tips – although I would suggest keeping your distance for Facebook – establish your own account and let your kids add you.

  4. Anna
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    Great tips. I love facebook. I’m not only friends with my kids on there, but several of their friends, too. (they added me!) It’s a good way to get to know them and see what they’re up to.

  5. John says:

    The younger generation has a natural aptitude for technology and more specifically in relation to social media. Social media is a bit nebulous. Since social media is ever-growing, the prospect is intimidating for parents whereas it is really second nature to the savvy younger generation. To bridge the gap, we need to tear down the social media wall between us and our kids.

  6. Josephine says:

    The young ones is really addicted to the online world
    cos its a way of communication to our friends and other people.
    The oldies really needs to practice the modern technology
    especially computers cos its very popular now.

  7. Wendy says:

    I don’t have to worry about it yet but it won’t be long, so I’m reading up on everything I can!!