Guest Post: Money Saving New Year’s Resolutions – How To Stick To Them

That’s it, you’re going to do it; there’s no excuses this year. You are going to save money, stick by a budget and have so much more money this year that you can buy that house, boat or other expensive item. You probably said that in 2011, and in 2010 and even in 2009. It’s like the “I’m going to lose weight” resolution: easy to make and easy to break. However, there are some helpful tips to make 2012 the first year that you actually stick to your money saving resolution.

Make a Realistic Budget
When making a money saving plan, you need to first make a budget. This will help you know how much money you can spend, and how much you want to save. Write down all the little things you have to buy, and compare it with the money you bring in each week.

Before finalizing your budget, make sure it’s realistic. Be honest: if you have to spend $500 a week, there is no way you are going to just spend that $500. You may want to eat out, buy something fun or go out for a night. Give yourself a little leeway, or there is no way you will stick to your plan.

Use Credit Cards
It goes against most money saving plans, but using credit cards can be beneficial. When you purchase through credit cards, or even debit cards, you get a distinct paper trail of your purchases so you can easily compare your expenditures to your budget. Just make sure you pay the amount so you don’t incur any interest.

Set a Goal
Saving money forever until you die isn’t a very good reason to save money, and you will get bored of it eventually. If you want to effectively save money, set some goal. It can be as simple as having $1,000 by the end of the month, but usually this isn’t good enough. What do you need the $1,000 for? Keep thinking about what you need the money for and it will help you stick to your plan.

Setup a Penalty
All of the above tips are useful, but what you really need is willpower. Without this, there is no way you will stick to your plan, regardless of all the planning you do. To ensure you don’t slip, setup a penalty whenever you don’t listen to your budget.

For example, if you want to save $1,000 a month and you only have $300, give it to charity. If you can’t save the full amount, then you don’t deserve to have any of the savings. Be sure to stick with your penalty, or soon it will become ineffective.

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It’s Okay To Wish Me A Merry Christmas

Christmas in the post-War United States

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It’s okay to wish me a Merry Christmas. You don’t have to say Happy Holidays, unless you want to.

I’m not religious, but I sing Christmas carols and have a Nativity I put out at Christmas. For me, Christmas is about traditions. My parents gave me the Nativity they had been putting out for years, when they decided to upgrade to a fancier one. I love it.

I’m a huge geek about Christmas. We went to Walmart last night, which was decorated from top to bottom, and after we walked in, I let out a huge sigh and said, to no one in particular, I love Christmas.

I love garland and lights, I love driving by houses at night that are all lit up. I love Christmas commercials – the one for Folgers, where the guy comes home from the Army and his sister says “you’re my present this year”? Chokes me up every time.

I LOVE Christmas music, I’ve had the radio in the van tuned to the all Christmas music station since before Thanksgiving. I love Christmas movies, and have a stack of them I watch over and over.

I love the plush singing snowmen that Hallmark sells every year. I love the Peppermint Stick ice cream that Quality Dairy only sells at Christmas.

I completely understand people of other faiths feeling left out this time of year, and I never want to offend anyone, so in my emails and other social media communication, I stick to Happy Holidays, just to be safe.

So go ahead and say Merry Christmas to me, or Happy Holidays, or Happy Chrismakwanzukkah, or Happy Festivus (the holiday for the rest of us!), whatever you’d like.  As long as we are all Merry and Happy this time of year, I’m good.

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Things That Worry Me About Getting Kaitlyn Off To Kindergarten

Thanks to Michigan law, school here doesn’t start until after Labor Day, because Labor Day is a huge tourism weekend here and the law makes student workers available to work their butts off peddling Mackinac Island Fudge and Traverse City Cherry Jam and commemorative plates bearing the image of the Mackinac Bridge for one last weekend.

It also gives families more opportunity to go Up North, resulting in more sales tax revenue for the state, also resulting in massive headaches for the people dumb enough to go North that weekend, unless they just really enjoy massive traffic jams and hotel rates that are 30% higher and nowhere to park (exception – Mackinac Island, which you get to on a ferry, no cars allowed).

Two of the modes of transport on Mackinac Isla...

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ANYWAY… so school starts Tuesday September 6th, and Kaitlyn is going to KINDERGARTEN, and because I’m me, I have a bunch of things I’m worried about.  First, she barely eats breakfast, because the kitchen here is always open, so her three bites of morning cereal are fine with her, she can just go grab something when she’s hungry.

Now, I realize she is not going to starve, and I’m positive there will be at least one snack time in addition to lunch, but I also know how grumpy she gets when she’s hungry, but what am I supposed to do? I can’t force breakfast into her, and she just doesn’t ever want to eat that much first thing in the morning.

I'd be willing to consider Lunchables a "good breakfast".

Especially since this year, unlike when her brothers went off to kindergarten and I had my own car and could drive them and pick them up every day, this year, I have no car, and Kaitlyn will have to ride…sniff…the BUS.  I have to put my baby on the BUS, which is all kinds of terrifying. What if someone picks on her? What if she gets scared?  I know it’s because she’s my baby and also because we are incredibly close, but the thought of her sitting on a bus by herself just hurts me in my heart.

Too bad this isn't a real school bus.

Oh, and how it relates to the breakfast thing?  I haven’t seen a bus schedule yet (because god forbid the school district should, you know, INFORM us ahead of time or anything), but the boys have always been picked up around 6:45 a.m.  Which means breakfast is sometime around 6:15 a.m.  Which is a hideous time to have to eat since who has an appetite that early in the morning? So yeah, I have no idea what I’m going to be able to convince Kaitlyn to eat.

I’m also worried about dealing with Kaitlyn’s hair every morning. She has long, curly hair that tangles if you look at it wrong, and needless to say, having it brushed out is not exactly one of her favorite activities. And we’ve been having a problem recently – I can’t seem to find a brand of ponytail holder that doesn’t just slip right out. The only way I can keep her hair out of her face is to twist it into a sort of bun and then wrap a ponytail holder around it,  which results in a messy, messy knot at the back of her head that I don’t particularly think is right for a whole school day.

Most days it looks like this.

SO. If you have suggestions for breakfasts for kindergartners eating at the crack of dawn, and/or suggestions for hairstyles that will last from 6:45 a.m. to 3:30 p.m. on long, curly, slippery hair, please leave them in a comment! Consider it a community service so that I don’t send  a starving ragamuffin to school every day.

 

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