Photo – Nathan wearing Metatarsal Boot

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Thursday night, Nathan was running from the kitchen into the living room to plug in his cell phone before the battery died, and he landed wrong on his right foot. It isn't swollen or misshapen, and he can put weight on it although it hurts, but just to be safe, I took him to the doctor on Friday. Because Nathan had specific pain on one point of his foot, the doctor sent us for Xrays and also wrote prescriptions for crutches and for a metatarsal boot, which keeps Nathan's foot aligned correctly and also protects it. I have been so impressed with how well he's dealing with all of this. We even went to the library today. I told him he could stay home, but he said "Mom, I have to get used to walking with the crutches for school." How's that for being a trooper? He hasn't complained at all, and best of all, he's letting me take care of him. Chris keeps telling me to let him get things for himself, but I LIKE giving him extra attention. At 12, he doesn't really need much … [Read more...]

Parenting an ADD-I Kid is HARD

Smiling Nathan

Attention Deficit Disorder: Inattentiveness- difficulty attending or focusing on a specific task. People with Attention Deficit Disorder may become distracted within a matter of minutes. Inattentive behavior may also cause difficulties with staying organized (e.g. losing things), keeping track of time, completing tasks, and making careless errors. I found out yesterday that Nathan has a book report due Monday, a report he has known about for a MONTH AND A HALF, a report we never heard about until his teacher made him call me from the classroom to tell me he was going to have to spend the weekend doing the report.  I decided to get over to the school before dismissal and wait outside the classroom so I could make sure Nathan had all the materials he needed for the project and also apologize to the teacher for not knowing what was going on. So all the kids leave and I go into the room, and the teacher comes in and asks Nathan how far along he is in the book he chose to read for … [Read more...]

I think I was in the Twilight Zone yesterday

Yesterday was a bad day. I took the kids to Walmart after school because both the boys had way outgrown last year's jeans. And with morning temps in the 40s, it was time for them to stop wearing shorts. So off we went, and at first everything was going fine. Ryan found jeans and cargo pants that fit and a t shirt with Rorshach (his favorite Watchmen character) on it, Nathan found skinny jeans that make him look way emo and a pair of cargo pants and a t shirt with Rock Band on it.  While Nathan was trying his pants on, Ryan took Kaitlyn over to the toy section to keep her occupied. Which ended pretty much the way I should have expected it to - with her lying FACE DOWN ON THE FLOOR screaming her fool head off about how she needed something to play with, after she realized I wasn't buying her any new toys.  I just calmly kept walking and she got up and followed me. Still whining and crying, of course.  It's always fun to be in a public place and have a screaming, wailing kid … [Read more...]