I like feeling validated about my choices

Mom & Kaitlyn
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Up until recently, I had been feeling like I really messed up not sending Kaitlyn to preschool last September.   I kept running across blog posts from other Moms of four year old girls, and their kids were writing their names and coloring pictures of people and houses and flowers, and since Kaitlyn isn’t yet doing either of those things, I was feeling like a failure.

Even though she wasn’t fully potty trained at all last September which was our deciding factor in not sending her to school, and even though she CAN do a whole lot of pretty smart things now (including taking herself to the bathroom, FINALLY), I was doubting myself.

But then over the last couple of days, Kaitlyn and I met some little girls who were exactly her size, who she instantly wanted to play with, who she just clicked with. Twice at the library and then again at the Sprint store, I sidled up to the other Moms and after telling them how cute their daughters were, asked innocently, “how old is she?”

In every single case, the other little girl was three. I don’t realize how petite Kaitlyn is until I see that she is the exact same size  as other three year olds.   So now I’m thinking it would have been a mistake to assume she was ready for kindergarten this Fall, I think it’s perfectly fine for her to start preschool this Fall at four, and turn five. Then go to kindergarten at five and turn six.

Right?

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Read This- Educating Esme: Diary Of A Teacher’s First Year

Educating Esme Originally published in 1999, Educating Esmé is technically the diary of Esmé Raji Codell’s first year teaching in a Chicago public school. But this book is so much more than just “today we did this, the next day we did that”. Parents, teachers, anyone interested at all in our country’s educational system, you really need to read this book. Hired at 24 to help open a new schoo and to teach fifth gradel, Madame Esmé (as she preferred to be called) soon finds herself taking phone calls from her boss at all hours of the night, teaching phonics to her class by having them make an alphabet museum “for the kindergarteners”, bringing in her own reading books instead of using official textbooks, roller skates down the hall to pick up her kids from gym during a unit on inventors, teaches her students conflict resolution, makes a student teacher for the day, and has the kids do the Cha-Cha to learn double digit multiplication.

Of all the out-of-the-box things that Madame Esmé describes in the book, my favorite is how she greeted her students at the beginning of each day. I wish every elementary teacher did these three things:

  • Say “Good Morning” to each child and have them say it back
  • Collect “troubles” in a “Trouble Basket”-a child having any problems not related to school pantomimes dropping their troubles in a basket at the door, which lets them unburden their worries and lets the teacher see what mood each child is in
  • Ask each child for a word that they don’t know how to spell, write it down and go over it privately later

I just really like that idea of giving each child that few minutes of personal attention at the beginning of the day.

I mentioned at the beginning that this book was originally published in 1999.  For this special 10th anniversary edition, the book now includes a Foreword by Katherine Paterson, author of “Bridge to Terabithia”, an Afterword by Jim Trelease, author of “The Read-Aloud Handbook”, and a new 53-page section with advice for aspiring and current elementary teachers.  Each of her 25 tips are multiple paragraphs of inside information that could have been their own book!  She also includes two new teacher shopping lists- one for supplies to request from parents, and one of supplies that will most likely be needed in the classroom.

My Mom taught elementary school for 30 years. She was that teacher that all the kids hoped to get. Her classrooms were always bright and fun and she doled out plenty of praise and affection along with her lessons. She was lucky to get jobs in buildings where the Principal recognized her talent and didn’t try to stifle her methods.  For someone who is creative, determined, and patient, teaching elementary school can bring lifelong rewards.  If you know someone who’s contemplating becoming a teacher, I highly recommend you get them this book. Educating Esmé: Diary of a Teacher’s First Year, Expanded Edition is available on Amazon.com for a very reasonable price.

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Last minute SAT help!

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So, the SATs are THIS SATURDAY. And your high school student might still need a little help getting ready. I don’t know how much SAT prep courses usually cost, but Brightstorm’s SAT Package Special, originally $147, is selling for $98. It includes:
• 14+ hrs of online videos covering content review, strategy, tips and tricks
• Interactive quizzes and downloadable practice problems and study guides
• Self-diagnostic test to point out areas to improvement with links of specific videos to review
• SAT practice problems and sample tests
• Daily study planners
• 24/7 access to online videos and downloadable practice sheets
• Dynamic teachers who use real life examples to make learning fun

If this sounds like something you can use, click here:

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I did absolutely nothing to prepare for the SATs and my scores reflected it. My verbal score was okay but my math score was horrible.  I don’t remember the minimum score required for the college I went to, but I’m thinking I barely made it.  I’ll leave you with one last thought:

1.) His —- sense of humor caused more —- than he must have intended.

(A) debunk..sobriety
(B) wry..confusion
(C) prominent..impudence
(D) dry..jargon
(E) incorrigible..paucity

Anybody know the right answer? :)

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