Nearly Wordless Wednesday 5-23-12: Kaitlyn’s Hair

Hair Before – Brushing it caused tears every single time:

Two weeks ago she finally talked me into letting her get it cut. Trimmed and with layers, it looks great and no more tangles or tears!

It’s easy to participate in Wordless Wednesday, or Nearly Wordless Wednesday if you want to include a little text :)   Post a photo on your site, then link it up so others can come see your post. I recommend linking up where I do – Wordless Wednesday and 5 Minutes for Mom, and then browse the links left there and visit other Wordless Wednesday participants. It’s a great way to find new blogs to read and to get a glimpse into the lives of your fellow bloggers!

Link up your Wordless or Nearly Wordless Wednesday posts below and leave a comment, and I’ll come visit your blog and leave you a comment!

Friday Fives 5-11-12

Last month on Babble, Sarah James posted the Blogger Beauty Secrets and tips of 33 of her blog friends, and when I was lying in bed last night thinking about what this week’s Friday Fives topic should be, I decided that I would post five of my own beauty tips. I’m pretty low-maintenance when it comes to beauty, I’m not going to make any “most beautiful bloggers on the internet” lists, but that’s okay – my husband thinks I’m beautiful and that’s all that matters :)   Scroll all the way down to see a photo of me taken yesterday, and here is my Friday Fives!

Five Beauty Tips:

1. If your hair is prone to frizz, handle it as little as possible when it’s wet. I had straight hair until after I gave birth to Kaitlyn, when suddenly I had wavy hair, so it’s been 6.5 years of trial and error figuring out how to care for it. I mean, imagine if after 30+ years, you suddenly had completely different hair!  The hair I used to be able to blow dry, curl with a curling iron, and still have it be smooth was suddenly a big frizzy mess.  I tried different kinds of shampoos and conditioners,  anti-frizz serums, silicone smoothers, but it turned out that what I really needed to do was just let my hair be natural whenever possible.  Blow-drying is the worst possible thing I can do to it, so I wash and condition, run a comb through to get out tangles, put in a headband to push back my growing-out bangs, and then leave it alone.  If I have to sleep with wet hair, I pull it up to the top of my head and wrap a scrunchie around it. In the morning I let it down and finger-comb it into place.  That plus a wash-and-wear hairstyle means I no longer hate my hair :)

2. Vaseline is your all-purpose beauty friend!  Keep a jar of Vaseline in the bathroom and another one on your bedside table. You can use it on your face, hands, legs, body, even your hair!  I use Vaseline as lip balm, to smooth down unruly eyebrows, under my eyes, on the little wrinkles next to my eyes,  on my rough heels, and on any dry patches of skin.  Although I haven’t tried it myself, I’ve read that you can also melt down those last little bits of lipstick in a tube and mix it with Vaseline for custom lip gloss!

3. Invest in good tweezers. I’ve been using cheap drugstore tweezers forever, until Tweezerman contacted me last month about doing a  Slant Tweezer review on MomReviews. I could not believe the difference!  I pluck my eyebrows because I’m a big baby about pain and don’t want to find out if waxing hurts or not.  I also pluck around my chin, yes, at 45 I’m getting whiskers like some old fairytale crone, and the Tweezerman tweezers are so much better at grabbing the fine hairs than the cheap ones.  The retail price for the Slant Tweezer is $22,  I recommend grabbing the weekly $5.00 off Bed Bath & Beyond coupon that comes in the Sunday paper. Trust me, $17 is a great deal, and I’m a diehard cheapskate.

4, Shave your legs with hair conditioner.  A couple of years ago, I was at the hair salon getting my hair colored, and two of the stylists and I were chatting about this and that when the topic of shaving versus waxing came up.  One of the stylists told me her “secret” for super-smooth shaved legs was using hair conditioner instead of shaving cream! Think about it, she said. Hair conditioner is for softening hair, which is exactly what you want to do for coarse leg hair so that it’s easier to shave.  The next time I shaved I used a squirt of conditioner on my legs first and sure enough, I got a close shave and my legs felt less dry when I was done.  Genius!

5. If you must spend time in the sun, use a ton of sunscreen. Except for some very faint lines next to my eyes and across my forehead, I think my skin still looks pretty good for being 45 years old, and I think one of the reasons is that I’m not a big fan of being out in the sun. Never have been. Growing up in the late 70′s and 80′s, my sister would spend every Saturday “laying out” on a towel in our backyard.  Tanning outside was so popular back then that a local radio station had 30 minute “time to turn over” announcements, and I am so not making that up.   I remember baby oil being advertised as the way to get a deep, dark tan!   Fortunately for me now, I preferred to be inside reading or playing the piano, although the times we did spend in the sun, there was sunscreen, but we only put it on our arms and legs. I guess people thought faces didn’t need it?   I have daily moisturizer with sunscreen but mostly, I just stay indoors.

Here’s a photo taken yesterday of me and Nathan. Notice my frizz free wash-and-go hair and my pale, spends-her-time-inside complexion? Oh, and that’s Vaseline on top of the Covergirl Outlast Lipstain on my lips :)

Happy Friday everybody and thanks for stopping by Friday Fives! Do be a love and leave a comment, won’t you?

If this post helps one person avoid a bad haircut, I’ll have done my job

Last Wednesday didn’t start out well; I hadn’t slept much the night before and woke up looking decidedly haggard. I had errands to run and wanted to get them done before lunch, so I left the house with unwashed, bed-headed hair. That was my first mistake.

After our first errand, I caught a glimpse of myself in the rearview mirror and made a snap decision. I would go get a haircut. I didn’t call Rachael, my regular stylist who has been cutting my hair for almost four years. Oh no, I quickly scanned the available strip-mall options and decided to pull into BoRics.  And let someone NEW cut my hair. That was my second mistake.

Shelly was very nice, chatted with Kaitlyn while getting me shampooed and ready in the chair. “So”, she said, “what are you looking to have done today?”

“Well”, I said, heaving a big sigh at my reflection, “reshape the layers and trim the ends”.  (hello, mistake number four)

Now, I’m not questioning Shelly’s skills. She was efficient and thorough in her work.  Snip snip snip snip snip THIS IS MUCH BETTER snip snip snip.

Finally she was finished, ran her hands through my hair one last time to fluff it up, then spun me around to face the mirror.

OH MY HOLY HELL WHAT HAVE I DONE?

When I told my friend Lisa about it, I told her that the stylist had made me look like this:

But, the more I looked at it, poked and prodded at it in the mirror in a pointless attempt to, I don’t know, REGROW MY HAIR, the more I looked at it the more I realized exactly who I now look like, if you substitute dark blonde hair for brunette:

I really wish I wasn’t kidding.  I know, it’s just HAIR, but dammit, I really learned my lesson about not being impulsive. I suppose you want to see a picture. I’ve been avoiding cameras, but Chris caught the side of my head here. Sigh. It’s only hair…It’s only hair…

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