Nearly Wordless Wednesday – Why Being A Mom of 3 Is My Special Occasion

At BlogHer, Hallmark had a booth in the Expo Hall with these shirts to customize and then they took your picture for a virtual mosaic. I stood there for a minute, thinking about what exactly in my life is a special occasion, and the answer came pretty quickly.

Chris and I were sure we didn’t want kids, maybe because we were still kids ourselves when we first started dating. Neither of us had any experience at all with babies, and when we tried to imagine ourselves as parents, we just couldn’t, so we agreed that kids were not in our future.

And then I had an unplanned pregnancy that ended in a blighted ovum, and I realized with much shock that I had actually been excited about having a baby, and it turned out Chris knew just how I felt, and a year later, Ryan was born.

From not wanting kids at all to having THREE of them, and doing a pretty okay job of raising them, makes the fact that I’m a Mom of 3 a special occasion every day! And so, the caption on the shirt :)

Hallmark Edge of Motherhood Cards Giveaway

This giveaway is closed. Congratulations to the three winners chosen by random.org:

1. Comment #1 by Monica from 3 Crazy Monkeys

2. Comment #36 by Ginny of Mom of 2 Dancers Reviews

3. Comment #13 by Anne of Forever A Younger

Congratulations!

When I visited Hallmark headquarters earlier this year, we were shown a potential new line of cards that was so top-secret, we had to agree not to tell anyone.  We stood in front of racks of cards, just like the racks you see in Hallmark stores, and picked out our favorite cards from this new line, then went around the table and talked about which cards we picked and who we would give them to. Well, I guess they liked our feedback, because now the line of cards is in stores!

It’s called Edge of Motherhood, and it’s cards for those moments in a Mom’s life that only another Mom could really understand.  You know, like those days when you need to get to an appointment or to work and the baby dumps a bowl of cereal on their head, or when your kid asks how his parent/teacher conference (that he forgot to tell you about) went.  In this digital age, Hallmark wants us to remember that the simple act of sending someone a card that they can open and read and put on a shelf is a great way to remind them that hey, they aren’t alone.

Edge of Motherhood Card

I also didn’t know that on the Hallmark website, you can pick a card, personalize it, address it, and Hallmark will mail it for you!  Like, there’s a card that on the front says “Turning (whatever age you fill in)? Take it with a grain of salt.” And then on the inside it can say “This works much better if the salt accompanies a large margarita.”  Hah!  If that’s not an appropriate message for the person you’re sending the card to, you can change it.  You can also add text to the other inside half of the card, add text at the top, and add a message at the bottom. Then fill in the address, pay for everything, and off your card goes! For like, the cost of a tall mocha at Starbucks. Pretty cool!

Hallmark is very generously letting me give three Table for Five readers TEN Edge of Motherhood cards, plus there will be a few general encouragement cards thrown in as well. That’s awesome!

WIN IT: For your entry, tell me who you want to send an Edge of Motherhood card to. You don’t have to tell me their name, you can say “my sister”, “my best friend”, “my neighbor”, or whomever it is.  This giveaway is open to U.S. addresses only.  Enter by Friday October 9th at 12:00 PM EST.

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  • Visit Hallmark’s Edge of Motherhood page, then come back here and tell me which card was your favorite.
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  • I’ll give you three entries for this one!  Go to my brand new Review Site called Table for Five Reviews and subscribe to the feed! Just click the center of the big coffee cup and pick your feed reader option. Leave three comments! this is no longer available

I’ll pick three comments at random and email those people for their mailing addresses. Thanks for entering and good luck everybody!

What I Learned At Hallmark

My trip to the Kansas City, Missouri home of Hallmark was brief but packed with information. It’s a beautiful city and I wish I had been able to do more exploring there.  Our day started bright and early with a trip to the Hallmark Visitor’s Center.  We learned about founder Joyce C. Hall, who came to Kansas City for business college. He had been helping his older brothers run a bookstore that also sold postcards, and he continued selling postcards by mail-order.  His brother joined him in 1911 and by 1915, they began producing greeting cards in envelopes.

The name “Hallmark” came from both a play on the name Hall and the word for quality. According to a google search I did, a place called Goldsmith’s Hall marked gold and silver coins with a mark meaning high quality. Thus, the coins got a “Hall Mark”.  A Hallmark product means high quality!

A few interesting tidbits I jotted down in my notebook-

  • in 1928, Hallmark introduced “Greetaphone” cards, which I learned were a paper card with an actual gramophone disc attached. The recipient played the record and heard a message. I would have never guessed that people were getting recorded cards that long ago!
  • The wrapping paper sold by Hallmark began as the pretty patterned liner paper that went inside envelopes.
  • In 1939 a Hallmark artist designed a Mother’s Day card showing a wagon full of purple pansies. The design proved so popular that it is still used, for cards for all occasions.
  • Hallmark cards are made in over 30 languages and sold in over 100 countries.
  • Hallmark bought Crayola in 1984. The Hallmark Crown Center complex includes CrayolaLand, which sells EVERY CRAYOLA PRODUCT MADE. And no, I did NOT have time to shop there which made me very sad.
  • Hallmark card commercials, even when not in English, can bring me to tears.  Trust me, I wasn’t the only person on this trip who cried-some more than once *cough*Casey*cough*  :)

Every person we met at Hallmark was as thrilled to meet us as we were to meet them. We met writers, graphic designers, and editors, and I’ll tell you this-  from what we saw, Hallmark is a wonderful place for creative people to work. And, they are progressive. Hallmark pays attention to trends, listens to consumers, thinks of new ways to express sentiments in cards and in other products.

I’ll be honest, I don’t buy a lot of greeting cards, which is something we all talked about there. Why don’t people send more cards? Have we forgotten the art of handwriting and giving our friends and loved ones something tangible to hold and look at?  Do we want e-cards and Facebook pokes to replace the joy of finding a birthday CARD in our mailbox?  It’s certainly something I’m thinking about a lot more since going to Hallmark.

I also asked right up front, with all the choices in cards, why should I specifically pick a Hallmark card? Aren’t they more expensive? The answer is NO. Hallmark’s value cards are only 99 cents, and yet the same work and care goes into coming up with the perfect design and written text for each one. And now that I have met some of the people behind the cards, you bet I’m more likely to choose a Hallmark card.

It was also terrific to spend the day with these awesome bloggers and meet their adorable kids!:

big-group-at-hallmark

Left to right in back: Amanda from Mommy Mandy, Kristin from An Ordinary Life, Natalie from  Red Sox Mommy, Trisha from Sweet ‘n’ Sassy Girls, Jenn from Mommy Needs Coffee, Michelle from Gotcha Baby, Janice from 5 Minutes for Mom, Gabrielle from Design Mom, Tanya from Mommy Goggles.

Left to right in front: Stephanie from Adventures in Babywearing, Me, Casey from Moosh in Indy.

A big thank you goes to Jon Gray from Fleishman-Hillard for not only organizing the trip but also putting up with my endless cell phone calls on my way to KC, with my flight being delayed, the plane not showing up, a new flight, and then minor hotel problems. He was professional and friendly and helpful through the whole thing. Thanks also to Mandy from F-H, and Deirdre, Eileen, and Tara from Hallmark.  I had a wonderful time!

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