Are These Eardrops Made of Unicorn Tears?

Say hello to my little friend, the $110 bottle of eardrops:

I spent a couple of hours last Sunday at a bowling alley that apparently hasn’t been vacuumed since Nixon was President, and about halfway through the party,  I was coughing and sneezing. By Monday afternoon, I wasn’t congested that much, but I felt lightheaded. The best way I could describe it was the way you feel when you first get off a merry-go-round that was spinning really fast. That feeling like something is shifting inside your head and you are powerless to stop it.

Tuesday morning, the lightheadedness was worse and constant. I called my doctor’s office only to learn that the next available appointment was in JULY.  I took a Claritin and tried to stick it out, but by the time I had to drive to pick up Ryan from an after-school activity, I knew I couldn’t wait any longer. I dropped Ryan off at home to watch Nathan and Kaitlyn, and drove to a nearby Urgent Care.  The waiting room was surprisingly empty and I got right in to see the doctor.

Diagnosis: the OUTER part of my right ear was, quote, “very red”. He never said infected, and when I specifically asked if there was trapped fluid in my ear, he said no. So basically, my ear canal on the right side was irritated, and congestion was trapped deep in my sinuses, causing the lightheadedness.  The doctor left the room for a minute and came back holding a prescription for eardrops. I was surprised, because I’ve always taken an oral antibiotic for ear problems.  I took the prescription to the Target pharmacy, spent 20 minutes browsing, then came back to pick it up.

The pharmacy cashier had a frown on her face. “I’m sorry, but your insurance only covered $9.00 of this. Your charge is $110.00″.  Excuse me? Did she just say one hundred and ten dollars for 2.5 milliliters of medication? Medication I’m only going to take for seven days?   The pharmacist walked over and took a look. “Oh”, she said. This medication has no generic substitute. Your prescription coverage has a much higher copay on brand name medications. You could go back and ask for a different prescription for something in a generic.”

Yeah, that wasn’t going to happen. I was already being irresponsible just by driving while experiencing lightheadedness. I wasn’t going to make my way out of the store, drive back to the Urgent Care, sit in the waiting room, and then ask the doctor for a different prescription!  Fortunately for us, my husband has a fixed amount taken out of every paycheck and deposited into a Health Equity account for paying out-of-pocket medical expenses. It comes with a handy VISA debit card. I whipped that out and crossed my fingers that there was $110 in the account while swiping the card.

I googled the medication when I got home, and learned that Ciprofloxacin is an antibiotic that is used to treat bacterial infections, and dexamethasone is a cortical steroid. And while there is a generic available for both ingredients individually, there isn’t a generic for this particular combination. Which is why Blue Cross only covered $9.00 and I paid $110, for HALF A TEASPOON of medication.

My ear had better never get infected ever again.

I’m just waiting on a fridge

I got picked by Mom Central to be on “Team Fridge”, which means I’m getting a new Frigidaire Side-by-Side Refrigerator to review. Which, yay!  Friday afternoon I got a phone call from a man (whose name and phone number I of course forgot to take down) saying the fridge would be delivered yesterday by a local appliance store. He told me where on the appliance store’s website to go to type in my invoice number and track my delivery.

8:00 AM Saturday- I get up, make coffee, boot up my laptop, go to the appliance store’s website, type in my invoice number, and it tells me my fridge has not been loaded on a delivery truck yet.  No problem, it’s early, right? There’s a toll free number listed on the site, I call it.  Answering machine. “Please call back during regular business hours, Monday thru Friday 8-5.”  Well that’s just peachy.

10:00 AM Saturday- I woke up my husband and had him pull our fridge out from the wall so I could sweep and mop under it. Don’t want the nice delivery men to see all the crap stuck to the floor.  I took everything off the front of the fridge and put Ryan to work doing all the dishes so we’d have room in the sink to put food from the fridge when we transferred it to the new one.  Checked the website- new fridge still not loaded on truck.

1:00 PM Saturday- Kaitlyn and I go down for a nap after I check the appliance store site again. The fridge has STILL not been loaded on a truck. Trying very hard to be patient which is not one of my stronger virtues.

4:00 PM Saturday- I call the appliance store. The girl who answers says yes, their system shows I’m getting a Frigidaire from them and it’s scheduled to be delivered. She suggests I call the toll free number. The one that NO ONE ANSWERS ON SATURDAY. Gahhhhh.

5:30 PM Saturday- I go to GameStop to trade in a bunch of Xbox 360 and DS games we don’t play anymore. I get enough in credit to buy the new EA Sports Active for the Wii. Awesome!  I go to Target for ground coffee and a Diaper Genie refill.  I don’t  buy ANYTHING ELSE, which for me is pretty much a miracle.

6:30 PM Saturday- When I get home, Chris tells me that the man called again, the one who had called Friday, asking how we liked our new fridge. Chris told him it hadn’t been delivered, and the man was, quote, surprised. He told Chris he would “try to call but probably couldn’t do anything”.

10:00 PM Saturday- Ryan and Nathan were both at sleepovers. The house was way too quiet and I never got my new fridge. I was kind of pissed off. Kaitlyn was still wide awake after her long afternoon nap, so the three of us went out for ice cream.  We came home and got her to bed and then watched “Hellboy II: The Golden Army”.

And now it’s Sunday morning and we’re watching Chris Matthews and drinking coffee, and I’m waiting for the appliance store to open at noon. Oh, and guess what? That page where you can type in your invoice number and see your delivery status?  Yesterday, it showed my name and address, the name and model of our new fridge, and something like “Not loaded on truck”.  Today?
Just my name and address and NOTHING ELSE.  Did my new fridge disappear? I am not a happy camper, ABC WAREHOUSE OF LANSING.  Give me my ding dang Frigidaire!

It’s A Crazy Week

Yesterday was Nathan’s 4th grade end-of-year concert. He sang and played the recorder. Tonight was Ryan’s 6th grade end-of-year concert, he played the violin.  Our school district requires all 5th graders to pick either band, orchestra or choir, next year Nathan wants to be in band and play the clarinet.

Today is Chris’ birthday. He is in Atlanta on business. I suggested he take himself to a movie tonight but today was the main work day for the computer migration something something or other, so he didn’t think he’d even be able to do that.  I called him this morning and sang Happy Birthday and Kaitlyn told him “happy birthday Daddy!”. He’ll be home Friday night.

I took a job helping with the BlogHer conference this year, the same job I did last year- Bookstore “Wrangler”. It means that my job is to pull together the information from all of the authors who would like to have their book stocked in our bookstore during the conference. I submit the orders to the bookseller and also make up the schedule for book signings. My Gmail has completely exploded with book requests as well as requests for product reviews and giveaways, and it makes me a little crazy every time I open it.

And um, yeah. Remember how I told you that when my husband goes away on business, I realize what a complete and total slob I am? My house is trashed.  TRASHED. Because during the day I’m trying to keep up with the email and write a post or two and play with Kaitlyn like I’m supposed to instead of letting her be parented by Nick Jr.  And at night I’m trying to figure out what’s for dinner and making sure the homework is done and keeping Nathan from taking 40 minute showers and trying to watch a TV show or two.

Crazy, and yet, today is one of those days where I feel grateful to have healthy kids and a loving husband and a roof over our heads. I really can’t complain.  Things are what they are, the posts will get written, the emails will get answered, the books will get ordered,  and I’ll try to remember to be grateful for the life I have.

So anyway, that’s what’s been going on with me.  Here’s me and Nathan in a less frazzled moment. Enjoy!

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